Tuesday, June 30, 2020

42 common wrong parenting methods, ranging from baby to baby, to fatal!

1. Breast milk can make your child's skin pale

The baby's skin color is mainly related to heredity. Applying breast milk is useless, and if the milk is rotted on the face, bacteria can easily invade the skin, causing the child's face to become red, and even become a small package, and then purulent.

Correct practice: If the baby's face is not dry, do not apply anything. If you want to use it, choose a baby-specific moisturizer.

2. Extracting baby teeth to make permanent teeth grow

The process of changing teeth for most children is a natural replacement, and there is no need to remove the deciduous teeth.

Correct practice: When the deciduous teeth are not lost, but the permanent teeth have already grown, in order to make the permanent teeth more tidy in the future, you can remove the deciduous teeth.

3. Sleeping hard pillow makes the head shape more round

Long-term use of harder pillows can easily deform the newborn's head or form a face. At present, the factors that really affect the child's head shape are heredity and sleeping posture, not pillows.

The right way: often adjust the sleeping position intentionally for the child, but do not forcefully interfere, let the child sleep well is more important than what degree, so sleeping comfortably is the most important.

4. Shaving fetal hair makes hair more

The newborn baby's hair will naturally fall off after three or four months, and the child's hair condition is related to heredity and nutritional status, whether the baby's hair is shaved or not.

Correct practice: It is best not to shave babies who are too small, as it is easy to damage the hair follicles and make the hair temporarily not grow.

5. Shaving eyebrows can make eyebrows dark

The child's skin is delicate, and scratching the root of the eyebrow may change the position and shape of the eyebrow. If the skin is scratched to cause infection and ulceration and scarring, the eyebrows may no longer grow.

Correct approach: Most children's eyebrows will not be shaped until they are about 2 years old, and parents need not worry.

6. Pinching your nose can make your nose straighten

At present, there is no definite scientific basis to confirm that regular lifting of the bridge of the nose can make the nose straighten. The child's nasal mucosa is delicate. If you pinch your nose too hard, it will damage the nasal mucosa.

Correct approach: Most facial features are related to heredity, just go with the flow.

7. Cutting eyelashes makes eyelashes longer

Eyelashes are not crops. The length and thickness of eyelashes are mainly related to heredity and nutrition. Eyelashes can block dust and excessive light, cut off eyelashes, and children's eyes are easily injured.

Correct practice: Let your child's eyelashes grow naturally.

8. Pinching the ear makes the pinna more rounded

The ears of most babies are not open, but as the child grows and develops, the ears will grow longer and more shaped, which is related to heredity. Some people don’t want their children to have a long ear, and pressing their ears back doesn’t work.

Correct practice: Normally gently tapping the ears for the child can play a certain role in massage. If the child's ears are really deformed, they should go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible.

9. Fear of not digesting, I always give porridge to my baby

Not adapting your baby's stomach to harder food will affect your baby's digestive ability. Moreover, due to the lack of chewing and swallowing exercises in the mouth, it may affect the baby's oral development and facial muscle development.

Correct practice: Add supplementary food to children can follow the principle of a small amount to a large amount, from thin to thick, from thin to thick, can gradually add rice noodles, porridge, fruits and vegetables, meat to make nutrition more balanced, but also allows the baby's chewing and digestive ability Get exercise gradually.

10. It is better to wear urine than wearing diapers

Infants and young children's autonomous urination function should be gradually improved with the development of the nervous system and urethral sphincter. Pissing urine before this time does not help your child establish voluntary urination. If you urinate regularly, your child may resist voluntary urination, which is counterproductive.

The correct approach: babies can wear diapers, do not put urine before one year old, older can be used for toilet training.

11. Use alcohol or liquor to cool the child

If industrial alcohol is used, the child's skin is very young and easily absorbs methanol. The harm of this substance to the brain and eyes can be said to be fatal. Even if rubbing the bath with medical alcohol or liquor, it may still lead to alcoholism in the child. .

Correct practice: children should wear less cover and not cover fever. You can take a warm bath and drink plenty of water. If the fever does not go down, the most effective way is to seek medical treatment in time.

12. I'm afraid the child will be covered with cold

Low temperature in children's hands and feet is a normal physiological phenomenon, just because the child's own weak heart strength and low blood pressure are not directly related to the child's coldness. Covering too hard can make the child irritable, sleep unsteadily, and may cover prickly heat and eczema. For details, see "Tianliang don't mess with clothes!" Determine if your baby is cold or not, just touch this part to know."

Correct practice: To understand the child's cold and hot conditions, it is most appropriate to touch the back or front chest of the child's torso, warm but not sweating.

13. Never turn on the air conditioner for your baby

The summer climate is hot, and children's body has poor adaptability to temperature. High temperature can easily cause heat stroke, dehydration or even sudden death. It may also stimulate children's respiratory tract, cause asthma, or cause skin inflammation such as prickly heat and eczema.

Correct practice: children can use air conditioning reasonably. But before use, be sure to clean the air conditioner filter, you can maintain the temperature of the air conditioner at around 26 degrees, and do not blow the air outlet directly at the child.

14. Breast milk is not nutritious after 6 months

So far, there is no scientific basis to prove that breast milk will lose its nutritional value at any stage. Breast milk will automatically adjust each secretion according to the growth of the baby to meet the baby's needs.

Correct practice: The World Health Organization recommends that infants be exclusively breastfed for 6 months, and after 6 months add supplementary food. If possible, it is best to breastfeed until 1 year old (with supplementary food also added during this period), or 2 years old or even longer.

15. The milk is too thin and the baby is not full

The stomach of a newborn baby is as big as grapes, and a little bit of breast milk can be full, and we see that the light milk is "pre-milk", most of the ingredients are water, which quenches the baby's thirst, the more the baby eats, the thicker the breast milk At the end, it will secrete cream-like "post-milk" to relieve hunger for the baby.

The correct approach: breastfeeding, as long as the mother has enough milk, you don’t have to worry about the baby not getting enough.

16. Baby eating milk powder grows fast

There is no basis for this. Babies who eat breast milk can also grow healthily, and eating breast milk can promote the development of the baby's immune system and intestinal flora, making the baby digest well and not easy to get sick, and some brands of milk powder are not strictly controlled. Adding too much protein and fat may cause the baby to become overweight.

Correct practice: Breastfeeding is healthier. If breastmilk is sufficient, there is no need to deliberately replace breastmilk with milk powder.

17. Add food supplements in two or three months

Breast milk can meet all the baby's needs within six months. Adding supplementary food in advance not only does not help, but it will cause an excessive burden on the child, and may also destroy the child's absorption of breast milk, which is counterproductive.

Correct practice: In theory, the baby can be exclusively breastfed until six months old, without any supplementary food. If you need to add it, you can gradually try to add it after four months, starting from adding vegetable juice, fruit juice, fruit puree, etc., adding one at a time, so that the baby can gradually adapt. Can rely on "98 Food Supplement Recipes"

18. Often shake and sleep

In fact, babies will fall asleep by themselves when they are sleepy. Some babies may not feel secure. I hope parents will stay with them. Shaking may give parents the illusion that they are more likely to sleep, but in fact babies just want parents to accompany TA. Long-term shaking may cause the child to become dependent, resulting in a situation where the child does not shake and cannot fall asleep, adding burden to the parents themselves out of thin air. Vigorous shaking may also cause cerebral hemorrhage, and even life-threatening. Here is a case: a 2-month-old baby boy was shaken violently and became silly.

Correct practice: If the baby is accustomed to shaking and sleeping, parents can gradually reduce the amplitude of the shaking when sleeping, to embrace and sleep without shaking, then to embrace and fall asleep, the adult touches to sleep, and finally the child falls asleep on his own. Gradually transition to develop the habit of falling asleep autonomously.

19. Feeding breastfeeding baby

More than 80% of breast milk is water. As long as the urination of the baby under non-medicine conditions is colorless, transparent or yellowish, it means that the body has enough water.

Correct practice: Pure breast milk babies drink water on their own, about 4 months, and formula milk babies, if necessary, can properly feed some water between meals.

20. Resolutely resist pacifiers and prevent babies from eating hands

Children's hands can meet both physical and psychological needs, and children under one year old do not need to be corrected. If your baby eats hands frequently, you can also use a pacifier, as long as the quality is passed and clean, there will be no side effects.

Correct approach: Don't force your baby to stop when eating, but also consider buying a pacifier for your baby.

twenty one. Babies pull curtains during sleep

Many parents will also close the curtains of the bedroom during the day to ensure that the child has a completely dark environment to improve sleep quality. This is actually wishful thinking of adults. In the newborn stage, the consequences of doing so are not conducive to establishing a baby Day and night cycle.

Correct practice: For babies under the age of half, we recommend not to draw curtains during the day, and to keep dark and quiet at night, and not to wake the sleeping child to drink milk.

twenty two. Calcium supplementation

Sweaty—calcium deficiency, occipital alopecia—calcium deficiency, unsightly head shape—calcium deficiency, crying in the middle of the night—calcium deficiency, walking late—calcium deficiency, do not like to eat—calcium deficiency...In fact, urban children nowadays, especially For families who don't blink in Haitao calcium supplements, calcium deficiency is almost impossible. The most sweating may be to cover the child too much: most children with pillow baldness will have it. It is more obvious if the pillow is used too early or the bedding choice is not good: the head type problem is more likely to be caused by the wrong sleeping posture...

Correct practice: 0-6 months, whether it is breast milk, formula milk or mixed feeding baby, as long as the amount of milk is enough, calcium is sufficient. After 6 months, if the baby's diet is balanced, there is no possibility of calcium deficiency. If you are not sure whether your baby is calcium deficiency, it is recommended to go to the hospital to consult a professional doctor.

twenty three. Breast milk babies born in winter need to supplement vitamin D

The content of vitamin D in breast milk is not high. Therefore, breast-fed babies are prone to some diseases caused by vitamin D deficiency if they are not exposed to moderate sunlight.

Correct practice: Vitamin D supplementation should begin shortly after birth.

twenty four. Let the baby learn to sit too early

The baby is born with a big head and a small body. Each baby must go through enough prone and crawling, and the muscles and bones of the foresight and back can support his brain. There are countless babies who have stooped and spine deformed due to premature learning to sit.

Correct practice: Encourage your child to lie prone when he was young, exercise his neck and back muscles, and raise his head, climb, sit, stand, and walk.

25. Learn to walk early and use a walker

Allowing the child to learn to walk prematurely, using a walker, etc. will cause the child's bone marrow to develop abnormally and form an O-shaped leg. The walker will hinder the development of the gluteal muscles. In addition, most children use the walker to walk and stand on the tip of their feet. Naturally, children cannot learn to lay their feet flat to support the body.

Correct practice: let your child learn to walk in a natural environment.

26. Snoring means the baby is sleeping soundly

Occasional snoring of the baby may be caused by a cold, but if the baby often snores, it may be due to tonsil hypertrophy or other reasons that affect the nasopharyngeal ventilation.

Correct practice: If the baby often has sleep snoring and mouth breathing, it is best to go to the hospital in time for examination.

27. Sunbathing, eating Yinzhihuang to jaundice

For infant jaundice, the most effective method is to take blue light. If it is physiological jaundice, the value is not high, and it can subside without intervention. The sunlight is full spectrum, and the sun does not have the function of turning yellow, but it may burn the baby. As for the Zhizhihuang injection, it has been banned by the state. Oral administration may cause diarrhea in the baby. It is not recommended to use. Gardenia treatment of neonatal jaundice? The state just banned it! 》

Correct practice: Physiological jaundice can wait for the baby to metabolize on his own. If the pathological jaundice or jaundice is very serious, it is recommended to go to the hospital as soon as possible.

28. Mouth-to-mouth feeding

Parents feeding their babies mouth-to-mouth can easily cause babies to be infected with pathogenic microorganisms such as Helicobacter pylori, causing chronic gastritis, peptic ulcers and other diseases of the baby, and even causing the baby to grow and develop slowly.

Correct practice: Parents must not use saliva to contact the food for the baby.

29. Feel free to feed baby food for adults

Hazard: 1. Foreign body jam. The development of the swallowing reflex in young children is not perfect. Once the foreign body gets stuck in the throat, it can cause irreversible damage to the brain and even death in a few minutes; 2. Cause allergies. Nuts such as peanuts and walnuts and aquatic products are common allergens.

Correct practice: Feed baby foods that are easy to chew and swallow and not easy to sensitize.

30. Tease children while eating

When eating, tease the child, the child yells or laughs, and then inhales deeply, food such as rice grains will be drawn into the trachea with the airflow, causing respiratory tract obstruction, even breathing difficulties, and breathing. If you do not send it to the doctor in time, you may life threatening.

The correct approach: feeding your child should keep him calm and focused.

31. Make the baby laugh too much

The baby lacks self-control ability. If he laughs, it will cause instantaneous breath, hypoxia, cause temporary cerebral ischemia, damage brain function, and may also cause stuttering.

The correct approach: children are not toys, laughter should be enough.

32. Shaking and throwing babies while playing

The baby's head volume and weight account for a large proportion of the whole body, but the support of the neck muscles to the head is very weak, violent shaking and high throwing can easily cause concussion in young children, and even make the retinal capillaries congested, resulting in Retinal detachment, or cause cerebral hemorrhage, can be fatal in severe cases.

Correct practice: Do not shake and throw the baby high, and try to avoid this dangerous game of letting the child sit on the neck of an adult.

33. Add salt to a few months of baby food supplement

The baby's taste is very light. Adding salt will cause the baby's kidneys to be overloaded, which can be fatal in severe cases. It may also cause the baby to get used to heavy tastes later, causing his liver and kidneys to be in a high load state for a long time, which is easier in adulthood. Encounter high blood pressure, obesity... In short, it is detrimental to the health of the baby's life. Some time ago, there was news that parents put salt in the porridge and killed 8 months old baby.

Correct approach: Don't use adult taste to measure baby's taste. Do not add salt under 1 year old!

34. Teasing children to drink

Children's liver development and metabolic function are not perfect. Even alcohol with a low degree can easily accumulate in the body and cause poisoning. Once overdose, serious diseases such as coma may occur, which will seriously affect brain development.

Correct practice: Keep babies and children away from alcohol, and do not put alcohol where children may get it, to avoid accidental drinking.

35. Kiss the baby casually

Hazard: 1. Infectious diseases. People who have a cold, oral diseases, or infectious diseases such as hepatitis, tuberculosis, and herpes can easily cause the child to get sick and can be fatal in severe cases. It should be noted here that some pathogens may not occur in adults, but after contacting the baby, it is easy to break through the TA's weak immune system and cause illness. Here are two cases of babies who died of infection due to adult kisses. 2. Cause dermatitis. Most cosmetics and lipsticks on adult faces contain fragrances and various chemicals. Direct contact with children will harm the children’s tender skin. If they are smokers, the nicotine left in the mouth may also harm the children.

Correct practice: When intimate contact with the baby, please ensure the hygiene and health of the adult, do not kiss the child at will.

36. Carrying the child in the car

When the car collides at 50 kilometers per hour, a child weighing 10 kilograms will instantly generate an impact force of about 300 kilograms. In this case, generally no one can hold the child, the child's head collides, and the consequences are unbearable.

Correct practice: Use child safety seats for children, and do not let children sit in the co-pilot.

37. In the evening, wake up the baby to breastfeed and defecate

Many fathers and mothers worry that their babies are hungry and often wake them up at night to breastfeed. Some parents are afraid of their children's bedwetting and wake up to urinate at midnight. Waking up the baby frequently in the middle of the night can easily disrupt the baby's sleep patterns and turn the baby into a night owl. It is still the baby who suffers, and adults can't sleep well.

Correct practice: Let your baby sleep naturally and wake up at night, using diapers to fall asleep.

38. Use pure water and mineral water to make milk powder

Purified water removes all kinds of constant elements and most of trace elements. Long-term drinking will cause children's mineral intake to be inadequate; mineral water contains too much minerals, and long-term drinking will cause children's intake of certain elements.

Correct practice: Use tap water to boil and cool to a suitable temperature to brew milk.

39. Legging a newborn

Leggings are practiced in many places, and many elderly people think that the baby’s legs will be straight and long when they grow up. In fact, leggings hinder the blood circulation of the baby's legs, not only is not conducive to bone development, and the baby's physical activity is artificially restricted will also cause great psychological shadows for the baby, so it is more prone to emotional irritability, crying, and insecurity.

Correct practice: Wear loose clothes for your baby so that his limbs are not subject to any restrictions.

40. Always think that the child is not full

Some parents, especially the older generation, feel that the child must be hungry every time they see the child crying. There are many reasons for the child's crying. It doesn't have to be hungry to cry. For a long time, the baby's stomach is easily propped up invisible, which lays a hidden danger for future obesity.

Correct practice: breastfeed according to baby's month size and daily food intake. If the baby is crying, first find out the reason for crying, do not blindly solve it with breastfeeding.

41. Baby takes medicine and injections as soon as he has a fever

Many factors can cause the baby to have a fever, burn it in the body of the baby, anxious in the hearts of parents, I hope to let the child's hot forehead cool down immediately. But the doctor reminds you that your baby has a fever, depending on the situation. If you give your baby premature use of antibiotics, it may cultivate the resistance of the baby's microflora, and when the baby really needs antibiotics in the future, the effect of taking antibiotics is not obvious.

The correct way: generally do not use medicine below 38 ℃, don't give injection easily if you can take medicine. For physical cooling, use warm water without alcohol. As long as the room temperature is not too cold when you have a fever, try to reduce your baby's clothes and not cover them. Babies are not like adults. Sometimes it may take a long time to lower the fever. Just follow the doctor's instructions. Parents shouldn't make quick gains and force doctors to give their children unnecessary injections, especially antibiotics.

42. Encourage your child to eat

When many parents feed their children, they especially like to encourage "big stuttering" and "hurry up". They think that a child's appetite is good only if he devours it. In fact, this is wrong. This encouragement will only cause the baby to develop bad eating habits. For well-absorbed babies, these bad eating habits may cause the baby to become obese in the future, resulting in a life-long psychological shadow. In addition, pay special attention not to make the child laugh or make fun of it while eating, this may cause the child to choke the intake pipe.

Correct practice: Parents should be patient, let children develop a good habit of chewing slowly, and concentrate when eating, not running around and playing with toys.

No comments:

Post a Comment